A wide lush green field with a main path that clearly forks and branches into multiple distinct pathways going off in very different directions — one veering left, one going right, one continuing straight ahead into the distance, bright warm sunshine, golden light, vivid blue sky, a few fluffy white clouds, small birds flying in the sky, peaceful and hopeful atmosphere, photorealistic landscape

About Me

Hi, nice to meet you, I’m Becky, late 30’s (OK 46!) trying to find my way in this wonderful thing called life.  It felt like Covid rocked up, I wore a mask, blinked a couple of times and, boom, 2026 arrived and, well, I feel kinda stuck.  Single, no kids, trying to work out if I’m becoming a spinster and buy some HRT and lavender (already have the cat), grunt when getting off the sofa and take up knitting.  Or……. or, do I have a go at getting unstuck, break the barriers, limiting beliefs and comfort zone bubble that has so magically engrained itself in my veins and soul.  Do I find the husband (lucky bastard!), try new things, get out of the comfort zone and find a new self-worth……….. yep, I’m doing the latter!

I went to dinner with a beautiful friend of mine, she was telling me about her blog, how it makes her mind work differently, in a more creative way, a hobby she’s started with her partner.  ‘Give it a go’ she said ‘it’s fun’.  I rolled my eyes, very loudly, one thing you should know about ‘Becky the Spinster’ is this is totally not me, I don’t post on any social media, I keep myself to myself (probably where I’m going wrong in life!). And yet here I am, (mid-life crises/start of perimenopause?) paying a monthly subscription for the privilege to write a load of ol bollocks (yes I do swear) that no will read! BUT a fantastic way to share me titing about, acting a twat with no filter. Do things I wouldn’t normally do cause I’ll ‘need something funny to write about in the blog’  Oh the power of the internet!

No bugger will probably read this (bit like my dating app profile) but if you do, ‘Hi’, welcome to the life of someone that’s making a promise to change how her story ends, jump on a new path, find the fork in the road.  Make terrible mistakes and probably spectacularly embarrass self, all of which I’ll share in all its glory. I’ll share stories of my past, my beliefs and how they now affect me, delving into if we need to change them,   Welcome to The Unstuck Project.